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Preserving Africa’s Mother Tongues: Identity, Belonging, and Action
Language is not just a medium for verbal exchange; it carries emotion, shapes how we think, offers cultural clues, and forges communal bonds. That’s why Africans should speak their mother tongues and fight to preserve them. Colonialism largely drove the disappearance of these languages, but more than 50 years after independence, the onus is on us to decolonize our minds. We have often heard that “Africa is the last frontier”—not only in minerals or population, but in our cult
mmmurungi
Nov 53 min read


Birth Order, Boundaries and Learning to Parent the Child in front of me
Recently, there are many conversations about the effect of birth order on us; how we relate to our parents, siblings, children, and significant others. From a tender age, I have been very aware of the responsibility that comes with being a first-born daughter. The overarching responsibilities are being a good example to my siblings, and appropriately representing my parents in society. I saw this firsthand as my mum is a first-born daughter to over 35 siblings. Because of thi
mmmurungi
Oct 214 min read


Beyond Traditional Careers: My Childhood Aspirations vs Japanese Youth Aspirations
Cultural Exchange and Evolving Aspirations As foreign students, we were often invited to elementary and high schools to interact with the...
mmmurungi
Sep 244 min read


Play as Classroom: A Childhood Memory and Its Parenting Lessons
Play isn’t just pastime for a child—it’s a first classroom. On Khamis Road in Old Kampala, I learned math, social awareness, and how to...
mmmurungi
Sep 93 min read


The Paternal Grip: Unravelling Families, Reweaving Connection
The Complexity of Patrilineal Traditions The majority of African tribes are patrilineal. Therefore, we get our names, mother tongue, and...
mmmurungi
Jul 294 min read


平和が間違っているように感じる時:アイデンティティの変容を旅する
記憶にある限り、私は自分が人生を動かしていると感じていました。しかし、3年から5年ほど前、何かが変化しました——今では人生が私を翻弄しているように感じられ、何にも掴みどころがない状態です。時には、飛んでいる飛行機からパラシュートなしで放り出されたような、あるいは、水面で必死...
mmmurungi
Jul 65 min read


When Success Changes Shape: The Silent Strain Between Parents and Adult Children
For many of us, parents are our real-life superheroes whose words and actions carry profound influence throughout our lives. Even those...
mmmurungi
Jun 244 min read


when peace feels wrong: journeying through identity transformation
For as long as I can remember, it felt like I was happening to life. But something shifted about three to five years ago—it now feels...
mmmurungi
Jun 114 min read


母は最高:私を愛してくれた女性たちへの賛歌
「オコンクウォがウムオフィアから追放された時、彼の唯一の避難場所は母親の村、ムバンタだった。到着すると、叔父のウチェンデュは彼に、イボ語で人気の名前「ネカ」は「母は最高」を意味し、たとえ父親の部族に属していても、母親の部族に避難できることを思い出させた。」 ...
mmmurungi
Jun 56 min read


退職の再定義:職場を超えた生きがい探し
私はまだ公式な退職年齢である65歳まで25年以上ありますが、この4、5年ずっと退職について考えています。「どんなに優れたダンサーでも、いつかは舞台を降りなければならない」と強く意識しています。退職のことを考えるとき、子どもたちに迷惑をかけずに十分なお金があるかだけでなく、で...
mmmurungi
May 194 min read


Mother is Supreme: Celebrating the Women Who Have Loved Me
When Okonkwo was banished from Umuofia, his only refuge was his mother’s village, Mbanta. Upon arrival, his uncle Uchendu reminded him...
mmmurungi
May 115 min read


Redefining Retirement: Finding Purpose beyond the Workplace
Retirement has been on my mind for the last four or five years, even though I’m still more than 25 years away from the official...
mmmurungi
Apr 223 min read


美の色合い:アフリカ社会におけるカラーリズムに立ち向かう
アフリカ人は、さまざまな茶色や黒の色合いを持つ豊かな肌の色の種類に恵まれた人種です。しかし、アフリカゾウやクロサイのように、この独特の色合いも危機に瀕しています。多くの女性や少女たちが、健康を犠牲にしてさえ肌を明るくすることを選択するからです。この傾向を助長する大きな要因は...
mmmurungi
Apr 216 min read


Shades of Beauty: How Colorism erodes Africans' identity and self-worth
Africans are a race blessed with a wide spectrum of skin colors, showcasing various shades of brown and black. However, like the majestic...
mmmurungi
Apr 154 min read


兄弟姉妹たちの贈り物:努力、愛、笑い、そして許しを通じて強固な関係を築く
私の故郷ウガンダのルガンダ語で「Ab’oluganda bita, bwebikoonagana tebyatik」は、「兄弟姉妹の間で何が起ころうとも、彼らはいつも仲直りする方法を見つける」という意味です。私は、同じ両親をもつ兄弟姉妹、神様が私たちの家に送ってくれた他の全...
mmmurungi
Mar 155 min read


The Gift of Siblings: Building strong relationships through intention, laughter and forgiveness
“Ab’oluganda bita, bwebikoonagana tebyatika.” Its loose translation is “no matter what happens amongst siblings, they always find a way...
mmmurungi
Mar 114 min read


父親の影響力:成功した女性たちを支える静かな力
アフリカのことわざに「 子どもとは、あなたがその子にしてあげたことそのものだ (A child is what you put into him) 」とあります。多くの力強い女性たちは、自らの成功を両親、特に父親に帰しています。モーリシャス初の女性大統領である...
mmmurungi
Mar 64 min read


A Father’s Influence: The Silent Force Behind Successful Women
An African proverb states, “ A child is what you put into him .” Many powerful women attribute their success to their parents,...
mmmurungi
Mar 43 min read
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